basically, you could try the electronic cigarette (wiki it, there’s plenty of info available). No second hand smoke, no cigarette smell, still get the nicotine, can use it anywhere (a lot of my friends in vegas and cali use ‘em cause there’s almost nowhere you can legally smoke in public these days), and the cartridges are refillable so theoretically its cheaper in the long run.

It might be a option for compromise until you are ready to give it up entirely, and this way your friends/family don’t have to suffer the second hand/smell issues…